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The Size of Your Life is the Result of Your Attitude


Welcome back to the Mindset Chick Podcast, I am so happy to have you here. I'm your host Kristi Dear. Since today is the start of February, we're going to be talking about love, sending yourself some love and sending love to other people. The other day I read a book, Living Big, from one of my favorite authors, Pam Grout. In it she writes, the size of our life essentially is the result of our attitudes. She's talking about living a big life, living a fulfilling life, and how our attitude really makes a huge difference.

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• I'm really proud of you for doing X, Y, Z, and just really stepping into that appreciation and loving attitude and sharing it, because sometimes we hold back and we don't share... Maybe we see somebody, a stranger on the street or in the store, right? And we walk by and go, Wow, she looks really pretty, or she was really pretty hair, or I like her outfit. We don't say anything. But why not just say, Oh, I love you're hair, it's really beautiful... Or, you look so good, I love those shoes. You look so great. It can literally light somebody up... And how many of you have done that? (05:31)

• You can always say, That's an interesting point of view, I'll take that into consideration. That's it. I mean, why do you need to say anything else? Right? I know I've said it before on these podcasts, but if you want to change the world, it starts with you. If you want to see more love in the world, if you want to see more people united and lifting each other up, it starts with you... It starts with me, it starts with us like changing our inner world. If we want to see more love, we have to be a loving being, we have to have an attitude of love, you to have to have an attitude of gratitude. We have to focus on the things that we do want to see in the world and not focus on the things that we don't. (07:45)

• As a coach and a leader in my business, I'm always coaching people through things and supporting them to break through what's no longer serving them so that they can live out their best life and manifest their best business, you know the business of their dreams. And one thing I always share with people is that you can't manifest a successful booming business when you're thinking about the lack, or you're focusing on what's not going right, or you're in a state of judgment, or you're in a state of comparing. You're in a state of tearing yourself down, you're in a state of worry, you can't manifest these amazing things into your life from that state. Because whatever you focus on comes back to you. Whatever you are thinking about and focusing on... You're planting the seeds for more of that to come into your life. (09:58)

• And what I like to do when I'm in these situations and I'm thinking, Oh, who could I bless today? Who could I serve today? Who really needs to hear from me today? I'll just close my eyes and say a little prayer and say, God lead me in the right direction, and let me know who to reach out to, or give me the wisdom and the words to say on this team call tonight, or on this podcast... What are the activities I should do today? So I really tune in and I say a prayer, and that's how I ask for a lot of divine guidance. And so if you're thinking, I'm not sure who to write this to or who to reach out to, I would encourage you to get quiet, say a little prayer, ask for divine guidance. (12:24)


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