ABOUT THIS EPISODE:
Welcome back to the Mindset Chick Podcast, I'm your host Kristi Dear. Today we are going to talk about those days when nothing seems to be going right, when everything is just getting on your nerves and you feel like, " I've been doing my morning mindset, I'm doing all things I am suppose to be doing. What's going on?" Well, sometimes things just happen, sometimes that's just life. And sometimes, believe it or not, setting that intention to manifest what we do want can bring us situations that maybe we didn't expect or maybe that we thought we didn't want. But in the end, it teaches us a big lesson.
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SHOWNOTES:
• Some days can really test your patience, and some days can get on your nerves and sometimes you just wake up and you feel annoyed and you don't know why. So, I'm going to share with you tips and things that I do to get out of that funk or out of that mood, switch the direction, the momentum of the thoughts and you know, get back on track. (2:19)
• Have you ever been there? You hit every red light and you're like, What is happening? Maybe your kids are testing your patience, you're moving really slow when you're trying to get out the door and you're like, We have to leave, and they're literally walking so slow, but every other time, they're jumping around... Right now, they're moving like snails, so it's like all these little things to test your patience, but then again, it could be a blessing and disguise. (3:44)
• I woke up this morning, somebody hacked into my Facebook, I had to change my password, and then every time I tried to log in to anything on my computer or my phone, it was making me remember my password, reset my password. I was like, Are you kidding me? I went out to the fridge and I tried to grab a drink, but it was a little sideways in the back, I tried to grab it, and when I did grab it, all other drinks fell on the ground, rolled out of the garage. I was chasing the soda's because they went under my car. Just little things like that. And I just thought, What is going on? And I knew, you know what I need to do, I need to take a deep breath, I need to just kinda laugh about it and not let it get to me. (8:04)
• Instead of saying, Yeah, that sounds great. And then you're resenting that person for asking you... Or you're resenting yourself because you said yes. Okay, so knowing your boundaries, asking for help, my husband Alex is so amazing and he's always here to help me. So, I just wrote down a list, I wrote down some things that he could help me with. I wrote down some things that I needed to get done. And you know what? I felt so much better. (10:24)
• So things like that can just teach us that there are some days where it feels like everything's just going so smoothly, so wonderfully, so perfect and so in alignment. And there's other days when maybe you don't feel your best, maybe you don't feel like talking to everybody, maybe you don't feel like things are going your way and to let you know that you're not doing it wrong, you're not a bad person, sometimes we just need those days because it could be teaching us a very, very important lesson. And just to have those days to learn and grow from the contrast, from the ups and downs, and to laugh about it and to not take it so seriously. (13:50)
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EPISODE AIRED ON: AUGUST 17, 2021