ABOUT THIS EPISODE:
Welcome back to The Mindset Chick Podcast. I'm super excited to talk with you today about the first steps and manifesting.
Really, the first step is deciding what you want. What do you really want? A lot of times people don't even know what they want. They just know that they want to be happier, they want to feel better. But what does that look like? What does that mean?
It's time to get specific about what you want, and like I say, place your order with the universe.
Are you ready to start manifesting your dream life? Let's get started...
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SHOWNOTES:
• When you're specific with the universe, you're going to get what you're asking for. When you're wishy washy with the universe, it's going to be wishy washy with you. So, most of the time people are putting out wishy washy requests; I want to feel happier, I want to feel better. Well, that's not specific enough, you're really not going to get back a lot of things that are going to match what you're asking for. (1:16)
• So, this law actually governs our universe, it is a universal law, it is written, this is how it works in the universe that we live in. It says that like attracts like... So, whatever you put out into the world, you're going to get back. (2:45)
• A lot of times people say, 'Man, I really want to be rich. I really want to be wealthy, I really would love to have that different lifestyle. But what they're putting out there is completely opposite. I don't have enough money. I'm not smart enough. I'm not good enough. I could never do that. That can never be possible for me. My teacher told me in the second grade that I wasn't good enough. My parents told me I wasn't good enough. I'm not good enough, I'm not good enough, I'm not good enough. And you know what, that momentum train is going, and it's going. And when you get the momentum on the negative thoughts, it's really hard to stop a moving train. (4:07)
• So, the best way to start realizing what you do want, is to know what you don't want. So, when I was in that situation and we were living paycheck to paycheck and my hubby was working two jobs, I didn't feel like I was living my best life and I wasn't that happy. It was hard for me to imagine my life like it is now. It was hard for me to imagine living in my dream home and making the kind of money that I desire. But I did know what I didn't want. I did know that I was tired of being stuck, I was tired of being broke and I was tired of being unhappy. So, because of that, I was able to shift my mindset... (5:59)
• Be aware of those thoughts, because I remember, like I said in the beginning, a lot of times, this is just a habit. People are just thinking thoughts on repeat and then wondering why am I not getting from A to B, you know? I want more money, but I'm not getting there because the thoughts aren't lining up with what you're asking for. You want a different reality. You want more money. You want more happiness. You want a better relationship. You want more love in your life. But, your inner thoughts, your inner dialogue and your daily habits aren't lining up with what you're asking for. So, we've got a no. But we've got to redirect it, we've got to stop that momentum and redirect, this is the first step. (14:13)
EPISODE AIRED ON:
SEPTEMBER 02, 2020